Friday, December 25, 2015

A Christmas Message

SPARKS OF ADVENT LIGHT
BY JOAN CHITTISTER



Behind all the Santa Claus characters, the red bows, the bells, and the reindeer that comes with Christmas, there is a haunting scene from another age, a diorama almost lost to this one in the name of political correctness. This child, born to poor parents , birthed in a stable, laid in a manger,watched over by angels and stars, by shepherds and wise men, by Mary and Joseph and the sheep on the hill. This child, we know, is special. But this specialness is also the uncomfortable reminder of other children, equally special, not nearly so well loved in our own time.

Perhaps never in our lives have we had to live with the knowledge of so much violence to children: children beaten, children abandoned, children violated sexually, children unwanted, children starving, children murdered. We wince at the very thought of it.We turn away, turn the dial, turn the conversation in other directions. It is simply too much to think about, too much to deal with.

But why the disbelief? Why the horror? Why the anger? After all, people everywhere are being beaten, killed, raped, and murdered. Children are just one more class of the same degradation. So what is the difference?

The difference is the future. Our future. These children, these innocents, are being sacrificed for the breakdown in mental health systems, for the permissiveness of the society, for the toxicity level of the environment, for the violence we take for granted, the violence we condone, the violence we breed in this century. Every one of them who suffers like this costs us another piece of hope in the future. Every one of them we lose marks the loss of a piece of our own life.

Maybe that’s why Jesus came as a child: to remind us that what we do not care for from infancy, will rob us of the future we seek. Will rob us of its intelligence its creativity, its sense of possibility, its promise.

Christmas, the birth of Jesus, reminds us that every child born is another chance to save the world, to make it better, to bring it joy.

No doubt about it, the birth of Jesus is a call for all of us to care for the innocent, to protect the defenseless, to build the future.

Make your Christmas merry by giving the child you do not know the opportunity to believe in people, to bring joy into our lives, to grow up better rather than bitter. 

Surely, Christmas has something important to do with reminding all of us to save the children of the world so that someday they can also save the world for us.      -SISTER JOAN CHITTISTER


 "So today, Christmas Day and throughout the years ahead, think of all children and what you can do to advocate for them until they can advocate for themselves and take their rightful place in society.”  As Sister Joan Chittister writes, ‘...to save the children of the world so that someday they can also save the world for us.’ 

Speak softly.
Listen gently.
Love unconditionally


Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year


-Marge

Sunday, December 13, 2015

YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW


YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW

I recently attended a Catholic Mass in Maryland. The homily featured Galatians 6:7.
…whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.” 

As I am wont to do, I began to think deeply  about this proverb and how it affects all life. We have probably heard this refrain many times and, yes, perhaps have used it in answer to some perceived wrong done to us or others.  Historically, this phrase has been used in a negative context. For example, a man who commits adultery, not only loses his family, but his honor and worth as a decent human being. His actions harm his wife and children, but have far reaching consequences in the work place, community, and society as well.  Lost forever is the respect and trust of family, friends, and co-workers.

We are all connected in some way in the universe. So, what one sends out to the universe, comes back at a future point in one’s life. It is not Karma for Karma is a rebirth or reincarnation into another body here on earth after one’s death.  

You reap what you sow is a Law of Nature. “It is a statement of fact, deduced from observation, to the effect that a particular natural or scientific phenomenon always occurs if certain conditions are present.” This law is two pronged. If a farmer expects to have a good harvest and a bountiful one, he will sow the best seed and plenty of it. If he sows poor quality seed and sparingly, he cannot expect his harvest to be anything but of poor quality and less of it. In the same spirit, if the farmer sows nothing, then he cannot expect anything at all. Simply put, this applies to all actions in life, good or bad, reward or punishment.

Recently, we have celebrated Thanksgiving Day. For me, thanksgiving means feeling and showing gratitude. When seeds of thankfulness are sown, one demonstrates admiration, respect, and appreciation for others. Isn’t that better than sowing seeds of disrespect, disdain, and disregard? Surely, this reaping is advantageous to all concerned?

Many of us will be celebrating Christmas, either in a religious or secular way, or both.  Money and time will be spent on decorations, gifts, entertaining, and Christmas dinners. 

At this most awaited holiday of the year, you can sow seeds of hope, comfort, cheer, inspiration, and more. Donate money to a favorite charity. Visit a nursing home. Participate in your church’s or community center's outreach programs. Inspire students by taking part in school activities with your children and friends. Schools can always use volunteers in myriad ways. These seeds you sow will yield great returns.

This endearing holiday is really a state of mind. It should be a time for pause and reflection. Gifts of time, love, joy, and peace could be given not only during the Christmas Season, but throughout the year. It would make a marvelous gift subscription for the recipients.




                                          ENJOY LIFE!


WISHING ALL A VERY BLESSED CHRISTMAS 
AND 

A SAFE AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!

GRANDMA MEG


***This is a lovely website entitled, “The True Meaning of Christmas.” Check it out.

http://llerrah.com/truemeaningofchristmas.htm